“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I havent posted on here in a long time, but I have been looking over some of the posts and I do not like what I see. The whole point of this forum is to discuss how to establish oneself as an attractive person to women. All the information for this is in the bible, yet I see people here day in and day out posting specific questions about their situation with one girl. Asking these questions gets you nowhere. If any of these people read and understood the bible, they would never ask these questions in the first place.

What I am getting as it that this message board is not helpful and I think the moderators need to do something about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i actually think it's starting to turn around for the better. less people are being keyboard jockeys and more people are getting out into the field. even though most of the information people ask specific questions about is in the bible, sometimes people would like to talk to a person about it.
 

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I have a few things to sort out in my life right now, practical rather than self image issues, but before long I intend to contribute properly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I agree completely. a lot of fukers on this site need to stop posting and start reading...they ask the most basic questions....questions that are already covered in the DJ bible.
the site is geared towards hating women.and being defensive with women.

rather than becoming more attractive to women..like the origional purpose was.


but I dont see the point in becoming attractive to women if they are so evil
 

So pimp its scary

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It's always had some times where things were good, some good shyt was going around...

But, I think that we're way to soft on the noobs... No offense, but there should be a certain standard of knowledge ...

Maybe hane an invites only forum that would blockout those types of questions...
 

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hey naes, go shove your head back in your ass, get off the soapbox , and thanks for your whine.
 

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
hey naes, go shove your head back in your ass, get off the soapbox , and thanks for your whine.
Its sad that someone that has over four hundred posts and is over twenty five years old would say something like this. I apologize if I have offended you with my opinion. I suppose this hits you on a personal level and because of that I feel sorry for you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're right. We should start banning anyone with under 5 posts. :rolleyes:

Obviously, there will be people out there who think that their situation is completely unique to them. For the most part, they're redirected to the DJB. In other cases, their threads are locked. Some others have theirs deleted. Then there are the ones who make it past all of this for whatever reason - be it inattention or merit.

In any case, things are what they are. Also, there have been about 2983429834 threads saying that "the boards aren't what they used to be", "the boards suck now", etc. 'Nuff said.
 
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