"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I havent posted on here in a long time, but I have been looking over some of the posts and I do not like what I see. The whole point of this forum is to discuss how to establish oneself as an attractive person to women. All the information for this is in the bible, yet I see people here day in and day out posting specific questions about their situation with one girl. Asking these questions gets you nowhere. If any of these people read and understood the bible, they would never ask these questions in the first place.

What I am getting as it that this message board is not helpful and I think the moderators need to do something about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i actually think it's starting to turn around for the better. less people are being keyboard jockeys and more people are getting out into the field. even though most of the information people ask specific questions about is in the bible, sometimes people would like to talk to a person about it.
 

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I have a few things to sort out in my life right now, practical rather than self image issues, but before long I intend to contribute properly.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I agree completely. a lot of fukers on this site need to stop posting and start reading...they ask the most basic questions....questions that are already covered in the DJ bible.
the site is geared towards hating women.and being defensive with women.

rather than becoming more attractive to women..like the origional purpose was.


but I dont see the point in becoming attractive to women if they are so evil
 

So pimp its scary

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It's always had some times where things were good, some good shyt was going around...

But, I think that we're way to soft on the noobs... No offense, but there should be a certain standard of knowledge ...

Maybe hane an invites only forum that would blockout those types of questions...
 

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hey naes, go shove your head back in your ass, get off the soapbox , and thanks for your whine.
 

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
hey naes, go shove your head back in your ass, get off the soapbox , and thanks for your whine.
Its sad that someone that has over four hundred posts and is over twenty five years old would say something like this. I apologize if I have offended you with my opinion. I suppose this hits you on a personal level and because of that I feel sorry for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're right. We should start banning anyone with under 5 posts. :rolleyes:

Obviously, there will be people out there who think that their situation is completely unique to them. For the most part, they're redirected to the DJB. In other cases, their threads are locked. Some others have theirs deleted. Then there are the ones who make it past all of this for whatever reason - be it inattention or merit.

In any case, things are what they are. Also, there have been about 2983429834 threads saying that "the boards aren't what they used to be", "the boards suck now", etc. 'Nuff said.
 
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