"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This board is a disaster zone

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I havent posted on here in a long time, but I have been looking over some of the posts and I do not like what I see. The whole point of this forum is to discuss how to establish oneself as an attractive person to women. All the information for this is in the bible, yet I see people here day in and day out posting specific questions about their situation with one girl. Asking these questions gets you nowhere. If any of these people read and understood the bible, they would never ask these questions in the first place.

What I am getting as it that this message board is not helpful and I think the moderators need to do something about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i actually think it's starting to turn around for the better. less people are being keyboard jockeys and more people are getting out into the field. even though most of the information people ask specific questions about is in the bible, sometimes people would like to talk to a person about it.
 

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I have a few things to sort out in my life right now, practical rather than self image issues, but before long I intend to contribute properly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree completely. a lot of fukers on this site need to stop posting and start reading...they ask the most basic questions....questions that are already covered in the DJ bible.
the site is geared towards hating women.and being defensive with women.

rather than becoming more attractive to women..like the origional purpose was.


but I dont see the point in becoming attractive to women if they are so evil
 

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It's always had some times where things were good, some good shyt was going around...

But, I think that we're way to soft on the noobs... No offense, but there should be a certain standard of knowledge ...

Maybe hane an invites only forum that would blockout those types of questions...
 

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hey naes, go shove your head back in your ass, get off the soapbox , and thanks for your whine.
 

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
hey naes, go shove your head back in your ass, get off the soapbox , and thanks for your whine.
Its sad that someone that has over four hundred posts and is over twenty five years old would say something like this. I apologize if I have offended you with my opinion. I suppose this hits you on a personal level and because of that I feel sorry for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're right. We should start banning anyone with under 5 posts. :rolleyes:

Obviously, there will be people out there who think that their situation is completely unique to them. For the most part, they're redirected to the DJB. In other cases, their threads are locked. Some others have theirs deleted. Then there are the ones who make it past all of this for whatever reason - be it inattention or merit.

In any case, things are what they are. Also, there have been about 2983429834 threads saying that "the boards aren't what they used to be", "the boards suck now", etc. 'Nuff said.
 
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