"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thinking you are in competition with every other guy

stuka1939

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Do you guys feel the same way when you meet an attractive woman? I am not really talking about the knockouts either, but mostly girls that you see as the 6's through the 8's.

Although there are plenty of attractive women out there, why do I think every guy wants the same girl I find attractive?

I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6...so technically, EVERY GUY does want her if he would have sex with her.

....and beauty is not really through the eye of the beholder since attractive faces all have one thing in common= Symmetrical faces and facial balance. I guarantee what you see as an 8, alot of other guys will agree or only be a point or so off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To an extent, women are like pizza, even when it's bad, it's good, but in the end, we all have our favorite toppings.
 
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why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
 

playa99

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no guy is your competition you are the don juan, you have patience, you know you get the girl eventually, this happened with the LTR i'm in at the moment, shouldnt this be in discussion forum as well??
 

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I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6

I agree. But most guys are AFCs. Don't be 'any guy.'

fwiw, I once turned down anal sex with a HB9. She cried for days. That was better than any sex. The b1tch was pissing me off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ricky

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I used to think that the community being exposed was bad and there'd be too much competition.

I used to hate seeing all the other guys at the club and knowing they were there to meet girls as well.

Now I know there is abundance. I am my only competition.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Ultimate Player said:
why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
Who's to say that you aren't?



edit - You're not as bad as Stuka, though.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Stuka, why do I get deja vu every time I read one of your threads? Oh yeah, because they're all the same.
 
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