"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thinking you are in competition with every other guy

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Do you guys feel the same way when you meet an attractive woman? I am not really talking about the knockouts either, but mostly girls that you see as the 6's through the 8's.

Although there are plenty of attractive women out there, why do I think every guy wants the same girl I find attractive?

I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6...so technically, EVERY GUY does want her if he would have sex with her.

....and beauty is not really through the eye of the beholder since attractive faces all have one thing in common= Symmetrical faces and facial balance. I guarantee what you see as an 8, alot of other guys will agree or only be a point or so off.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To an extent, women are like pizza, even when it's bad, it's good, but in the end, we all have our favorite toppings.
 
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why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
 
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no guy is your competition you are the don juan, you have patience, you know you get the girl eventually, this happened with the LTR i'm in at the moment, shouldnt this be in discussion forum as well??
 
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I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6

I agree. But most guys are AFCs. Don't be 'any guy.'

fwiw, I once turned down anal sex with a HB9. She cried for days. That was better than any sex. The b1tch was pissing me off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I used to think that the community being exposed was bad and there'd be too much competition.

I used to hate seeing all the other guys at the club and knowing they were there to meet girls as well.

Now I know there is abundance. I am my only competition.
 
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Ultimate Player said:
why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
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Who's to say that you aren't?



edit - You're not as bad as Stuka, though.
 
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Stuka, why do I get deja vu every time I read one of your threads? Oh yeah, because they're all the same.
 
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