"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thinking you are in competition with every other guy

stuka1939

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Do you guys feel the same way when you meet an attractive woman? I am not really talking about the knockouts either, but mostly girls that you see as the 6's through the 8's.

Although there are plenty of attractive women out there, why do I think every guy wants the same girl I find attractive?

I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6...so technically, EVERY GUY does want her if he would have sex with her.

....and beauty is not really through the eye of the beholder since attractive faces all have one thing in common= Symmetrical faces and facial balance. I guarantee what you see as an 8, alot of other guys will agree or only be a point or so off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To an extent, women are like pizza, even when it's bad, it's good, but in the end, we all have our favorite toppings.
 
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why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
 

playa99

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no guy is your competition you are the don juan, you have patience, you know you get the girl eventually, this happened with the LTR i'm in at the moment, shouldnt this be in discussion forum as well??
 

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I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6

I agree. But most guys are AFCs. Don't be 'any guy.'

fwiw, I once turned down anal sex with a HB9. She cried for days. That was better than any sex. The b1tch was pissing me off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ricky

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I used to think that the community being exposed was bad and there'd be too much competition.

I used to hate seeing all the other guys at the club and knowing they were there to meet girls as well.

Now I know there is abundance. I am my only competition.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Ultimate Player said:
why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
Who's to say that you aren't?



edit - You're not as bad as Stuka, though.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Stuka, why do I get deja vu every time I read one of your threads? Oh yeah, because they're all the same.
 
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