"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thinking you are in competition with every other guy

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Do you guys feel the same way when you meet an attractive woman? I am not really talking about the knockouts either, but mostly girls that you see as the 6's through the 8's.

Although there are plenty of attractive women out there, why do I think every guy wants the same girl I find attractive?

I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6...so technically, EVERY GUY does want her if he would have sex with her.

....and beauty is not really through the eye of the beholder since attractive faces all have one thing in common= Symmetrical faces and facial balance. I guarantee what you see as an 8, alot of other guys will agree or only be a point or so off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To an extent, women are like pizza, even when it's bad, it's good, but in the end, we all have our favorite toppings.
 
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why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
 
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no guy is your competition you are the don juan, you have patience, you know you get the girl eventually, this happened with the LTR i'm in at the moment, shouldnt this be in discussion forum as well??
 
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I think alot of it has to do with just about any guy will NEVER turn down sex from a girl who is atleast a 5.5-6

I agree. But most guys are AFCs. Don't be 'any guy.'

fwiw, I once turned down anal sex with a HB9. She cried for days. That was better than any sex. The b1tch was pissing me off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I used to think that the community being exposed was bad and there'd be too much competition.

I used to hate seeing all the other guys at the club and knowing they were there to meet girls as well.

Now I know there is abundance. I am my only competition.
 
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Ultimate Player said:
why are u speaking from theory as opposed to speaking from experience? you are a total fraud
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Who's to say that you aren't?



edit - You're not as bad as Stuka, though.
 
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Stuka, why do I get deja vu every time I read one of your threads? Oh yeah, because they're all the same.
 
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