Thinking she might have a bf

[kidkoala]

Did a search and this topic isn;t covered so here goes: so when I;m meeting a new girl or want to meet a new girl i find that often I;m nervous, but i talk anyways, which is good. But sometimes I fear that the girl has a BF, and she;ll get all mad at me. This is completely irrational and i was wondering if a. anyone else has that fear annd b. how do u get out of that frame

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Man, you gotta go in assuming she doesnt. If she ever mentions a boyfriend IGNORE it and keep on with you game. If she says "oh sorry I have a boyfriend" you can say "aww..im sorry..how long have you had that problem for"

lets say your asking her to chill
"oh sorry i have a boyfriend"
you can say "well if he makes you happy...you can bring him along"

Smooth Player 056

 

[kidkoala]

i like it

 

[kegger]

I have used a little trick as looking for clue words to stick on to find out if she has a BF. One example is that I said a little joke and she responded that she was going to kick my ass. After she said this, I responded why would you do that, don't you want your BF to do it. And comes to find out she didn't have one, if that helps at all.