"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thinking she might have a bf

kidkoala

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Did a search and this topic isn;t covered so here goes: so when I;m meeting a new girl or want to meet a new girl i find that often I;m nervous, but i talk anyways, which is good. But sometimes I fear that the girl has a BF, and she;ll get all mad at me. This is completely irrational and i was wondering if a. anyone else has that fear annd b. how do u get out of that frame
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smooth Player 056

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Man, you gotta go in assuming she doesnt. If she ever mentions a boyfriend IGNORE it and keep on with you game. If she says "oh sorry I have a boyfriend" you can say "aww..im sorry..how long have you had that problem for"

lets say your asking her to chill
"oh sorry i have a boyfriend"
you can say "well if he makes you happy...you can bring him along"

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kegger

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I have used a little trick as looking for clue words to stick on to find out if she has a BF. One example is that I said a little joke and she responded that she was going to kick my ass. After she said this, I responded why would you do that, don't you want your BF to do it. And comes to find out she didn't have one, if that helps at all.
 
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