"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thinking she might have a bf

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Did a search and this topic isn;t covered so here goes: so when I;m meeting a new girl or want to meet a new girl i find that often I;m nervous, but i talk anyways, which is good. But sometimes I fear that the girl has a BF, and she;ll get all mad at me. This is completely irrational and i was wondering if a. anyone else has that fear annd b. how do u get out of that frame
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man, you gotta go in assuming she doesnt. If she ever mentions a boyfriend IGNORE it and keep on with you game. If she says "oh sorry I have a boyfriend" you can say "aww..im sorry..how long have you had that problem for"

lets say your asking her to chill
"oh sorry i have a boyfriend"
you can say "well if he makes you happy...you can bring him along"

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I have used a little trick as looking for clue words to stick on to find out if she has a BF. One example is that I said a little joke and she responded that she was going to kick my ass. After she said this, I responded why would you do that, don't you want your BF to do it. And comes to find out she didn't have one, if that helps at all.
 
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