Did a search and this topic isn;t covered so here goes: so when I;m meeting a new girl or want to meet a new girl i find that often I;m nervous, but i talk anyways, which is good. But sometimes I fear that the girl has a BF, and she;ll get all mad at me. This is completely irrational and i was wondering if a. anyone else has that fear annd b. how do u get out of that frame
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thinking she might have a bf
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