"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Thinking of giving a gift to a girl.

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Hi all, I need a DJ's advice on this.

There is a girl that I like and she works at a coffee shop. Every time I go in there we chat and whatnot for about 9 months now.

Well she is leaving to move to another province and I thought that I would give her a gift because we seemed to have hit it off and seemed to be friends.

She has a boyfriend and all and doesn't think of me as anything other than a friend or a good customer.

I was thinking that because she will be driving to this other province I would hand her a $50 bill on her last day and say thanks for everything. Maybe tell her she could always use extra gas money.

Do you guys think thats a good thing to do for a women? I like to take care of people that I consider my friends, but the DJ way seems to not allow doing nice things for women. Is this totally AFC or what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's AFC. And boring. You could at least TRY and put some effort to get a little trinket or something that has relevance.
 
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Monster said:
That's AFC. And boring. You could at least TRY and put some effort to get a little trinket or something that has relevance.
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What, gas money is not thoughtful?
 
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well it is but she will be more likely to turn money down im not sure why some people are so likely to turn down money but i have seen some people get slightly offended by this gesture which could be a sign of insecurity or them thinking you are saying they can't afford things.
 
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If you are doing it for the reasons you state above, then you should go shop around for something for her. Take a female friend and get her opinion and have her shop with you for something. That would really be a good gesture. As long as it is not done for creepy reasons it will come out good.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree. Money will mean much less to her then something she can wear like a bracelet or something else.
 
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good, and clever point there francisco d'anconia
 
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