Thinking of giving a gift to a girl.

[Canadian Catnip]

Hi all, I need a DJ's advice on this.

There is a girl that I like and she works at a coffee shop. Every time I go in there we chat and whatnot for about 9 months now.

Well she is leaving to move to another province and I thought that I would give her a gift because we seemed to have hit it off and seemed to be friends.

She has a boyfriend and all and doesn't think of me as anything other than a friend or a good customer.

I was thinking that because she will be driving to this other province I would hand her a $50 bill on her last day and say thanks for everything. Maybe tell her she could always use extra gas money.

Do you guys think thats a good thing to do for a women? I like to take care of people that I consider my friends, but the DJ way seems to not allow doing nice things for women. Is this totally AFC or what?

 

[Monster]

That's AFC. And boring. You could at least TRY and put some effort to get a little trinket or something that has relevance.

 

[Canadian Catnip]

That's AFC. And boring. You could at least TRY and put some effort to get a little trinket or something that has relevance.

What, gas money is not thoughtful?

 

[J-Bone]

well it is but she will be more likely to turn money down im not sure why some people are so likely to turn down money but i have seen some people get slightly offended by this gesture which could be a sign of insecurity or them thinking you are saying they can't afford things.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

If you are doing it for the reasons you state above, then you should go shop around for something for her. Take a female friend and get her opinion and have her shop with you for something. That would really be a good gesture. As long as it is not done for creepy reasons it will come out good.

 

[Charm]

I agree. Money will mean much less to her then something she can wear like a bracelet or something else.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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[J-Bone]

good, and clever point there francisco d'anconia