mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some will. Shows their immaturity.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thinking of flaking on this girl
- Thread starter B0redandl0nely
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
And me Mr. Nice Guy goes along with it. When I get that flake text from her tomorrow, I'm gonna tell her she's a b1tch and has no right to take advantage of handicapped unassertive people like me.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Im talking to 12 babes. 4 of them very nice and enjoying the time. One "bull dyke" sounding one "rejected" me when i suggested a starbucks first meetup. I was glad. Some folks are shytty. And your being a puzzy behind all this. If a bytch not into you drop her and moveon.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
Yeah that's why you're on sosuave forums on a Saturday night. You're a puzzy. Every girl should be into me but I don't care because I hate them all. I'm gonna make this bytch wanna cry tomorrow.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
If a girl tries to show interest in me ever again, I'm gonna reject them in the coldest way. They really think they're hot shyt but I'm not gonna be phased by them like the rest of the horny freaks on this forum.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don’t take her too seriously. Sounds like you are in a bit of the anger phase, it will pass. You will learn to laugh these women off once you understand their nature. Put that negative energy into improving your game. Good luck
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I got some new puzzy today. And ill be off ss soon. Over analyzing and overtalking this subject fvcks up your vibe. It should all be no big deal. I know what i should be doing and i know the shyt in the past that i used to get hung up on. Dont give up on your self.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
She exploited me.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This. We learn to laugh at it.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
It is a big deal. They shouldn't be allowed to get away with this shyt.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I'm so glad this will never happen again. I laugh at all of you who chase after women. Like I said, if another one shows interest in me she is getting rejected in the coldest way. I'm not interested. Especially the hot ones who think who the fvck they are. I'm not falling under their spell.
B0redandl0nely
Senior Don Juan
I can't even relax and enjoy the UFC fights because of this b1tch. I can't believe I let her do this to me!