"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thinking back...I think some Women know the know hows of DJing

gimmeyofonenumba

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I was thinking back to a chick i had lunch with 1 time, a few weeks ago. It went great, i made her laugh, did some kino, but she is really random, so we never get deep into a subject, just kinda brush on it and move on. Anyways, im thinking back, and am realizing that the girl flipped the table on me. Before the lunch date, she emailed me a few days before(this is the first email sent) i replied, and i sent her 2 emails in 2 days. 1 day later she replies, i say ok, im seeming desperate, so i wait about 3 days before emailing her again. Of course she never replies. Like this was a way for her to show interest in me, and when i reply back she pretends to remove her interest. With the effort to making me want more. Also, when your talking to her, sometimes she'll make a lil sexual joke, and then when you hint back to it, she wont respond accordingly, making it feel like you have to redeem yourself in the conversation somehow. I havent talked to her in weeks, i still see her in class, but she sits on the other side of the room and vanishes after class.

There are a few more DJ things she did as well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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This sounds a lot like an attention wh0re who only cares to give you attention when she wants some back more than "DJ".

For example, she wants to get you all riled up over sexual allusions in conversation to validate herself as sexually attractive. She does this by gauging your response and obvious attraction. When you return it, she doesn't care. She got the validation she needs. She'll coldly brush off your sexual allusions.
 

Triple X

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I can sum this up in one word.

NEXT!!!!
 

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the lady mags are probly telling them the same **** DJ forums, mens health, maxim etc. tells us.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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should i next this chick? seriously, it may seem like we've done/talked alot, but to me it seems like not much has happened. Im thinking of just approaching and tell her i cant do anything this weekend, but i can next week. Should i play her game back at her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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