"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thinking back...I think some Women know the know hows of DJing

gimmeyofonenumba

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I was thinking back to a chick i had lunch with 1 time, a few weeks ago. It went great, i made her laugh, did some kino, but she is really random, so we never get deep into a subject, just kinda brush on it and move on. Anyways, im thinking back, and am realizing that the girl flipped the table on me. Before the lunch date, she emailed me a few days before(this is the first email sent) i replied, and i sent her 2 emails in 2 days. 1 day later she replies, i say ok, im seeming desperate, so i wait about 3 days before emailing her again. Of course she never replies. Like this was a way for her to show interest in me, and when i reply back she pretends to remove her interest. With the effort to making me want more. Also, when your talking to her, sometimes she'll make a lil sexual joke, and then when you hint back to it, she wont respond accordingly, making it feel like you have to redeem yourself in the conversation somehow. I havent talked to her in weeks, i still see her in class, but she sits on the other side of the room and vanishes after class.

There are a few more DJ things she did as well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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This sounds a lot like an attention wh0re who only cares to give you attention when she wants some back more than "DJ".

For example, she wants to get you all riled up over sexual allusions in conversation to validate herself as sexually attractive. She does this by gauging your response and obvious attraction. When you return it, she doesn't care. She got the validation she needs. She'll coldly brush off your sexual allusions.
 

Triple X

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I can sum this up in one word.

NEXT!!!!
 

Mack Bishop

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the lady mags are probly telling them the same **** DJ forums, mens health, maxim etc. tells us.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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should i next this chick? seriously, it may seem like we've done/talked alot, but to me it seems like not much has happened. Im thinking of just approaching and tell her i cant do anything this weekend, but i can next week. Should i play her game back at her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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