"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thinking back...I think some Women know the know hows of DJing

gimmeyofonenumba

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I was thinking back to a chick i had lunch with 1 time, a few weeks ago. It went great, i made her laugh, did some kino, but she is really random, so we never get deep into a subject, just kinda brush on it and move on. Anyways, im thinking back, and am realizing that the girl flipped the table on me. Before the lunch date, she emailed me a few days before(this is the first email sent) i replied, and i sent her 2 emails in 2 days. 1 day later she replies, i say ok, im seeming desperate, so i wait about 3 days before emailing her again. Of course she never replies. Like this was a way for her to show interest in me, and when i reply back she pretends to remove her interest. With the effort to making me want more. Also, when your talking to her, sometimes she'll make a lil sexual joke, and then when you hint back to it, she wont respond accordingly, making it feel like you have to redeem yourself in the conversation somehow. I havent talked to her in weeks, i still see her in class, but she sits on the other side of the room and vanishes after class.

There are a few more DJ things she did as well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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This sounds a lot like an attention wh0re who only cares to give you attention when she wants some back more than "DJ".

For example, she wants to get you all riled up over sexual allusions in conversation to validate herself as sexually attractive. She does this by gauging your response and obvious attraction. When you return it, she doesn't care. She got the validation she needs. She'll coldly brush off your sexual allusions.
 

Triple X

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I can sum this up in one word.

NEXT!!!!
 

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the lady mags are probly telling them the same **** DJ forums, mens health, maxim etc. tells us.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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should i next this chick? seriously, it may seem like we've done/talked alot, but to me it seems like not much has happened. Im thinking of just approaching and tell her i cant do anything this weekend, but i can next week. Should i play her game back at her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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