"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thinking about how well things worked out for me

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Hearing about my replacement having a heart attack been on my mind in this last week. Why you ask? because I knew this guy before he started dating my ex who's a BPD, this man was a vibrant young man he was always the life of the party. He was the guy that would make you laugh, if you were having a bad day he could cheer you up.

He started dating the BPD he started to change he wasn't the cheery person he used to be, I watched his health decline along with his co-workers change he turned miserable he wasn't the same person. I'm I surprised he had a heart attack? no, I don't want to see the guy dead, it is her doing it to him.

Her and I had a big blow out she wasn't happy in her life she took it out on me as I've mentioned before I kicked her to the curb I didn't want to stay friends with her. I seen how angry a BPD can be it was the ugliest vicious side of her I've ever seen. I ended up in deep trouble with my employer I had to leave my supervisor job.

I think to myself if I stayed with her would I suffer the same fate? I didn't let her get away with the BS like her current BF. You know she acted different with me she gave up on her manipulating when she seen it didn't have an affect on me. She was calm with me most of the time she did cause some drama but most of the time she was calm.

Today I'm stress free I'm working in a previous career making decent money, I've recovered from the damages job burn out does to you. The BPD has painted me black I never hear from her if I ever do it will be NC. She was my first mentally ill woman she will be my last, she was way too much work to be in a relationship with.

Karma has come to haunt her, where she works nobody trusts her, I had a lot of employees at that corporation knew me and respected me she messed with the wrong person.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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With situations like this, the old term
Man Eater comes to my mind…
The final results will vary depending on each mans inner core strength that she interacts with.…
You are right to feel grateful for dodging that bullet.
 
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Why do you care?
 

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It bothers me how a toxic woman gloats she ruins men as I said she gloated she destroyed her last BF I bet she's gloating with glee she's almost killed her current BF. She really doesn't care about him its only what she can get out of him. I know it p*sses her off to no end that I bounced back better than ever she thought I would be ruined after losing my supervisor job and my health would take me out. It never happened I'm healthy like a 30 year old guy I look like I'm in my 30s life is good. She's claimed to attempt suicide couple times before she met me I guess I never stressed her out enough for her to try it again.... damn. Her little path of destruction continues and she's completely oblivious to it LOL
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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