"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thinking about how well things worked out for me

051AV

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Hearing about my replacement having a heart attack been on my mind in this last week. Why you ask? because I knew this guy before he started dating my ex who's a BPD, this man was a vibrant young man he was always the life of the party. He was the guy that would make you laugh, if you were having a bad day he could cheer you up.

He started dating the BPD he started to change he wasn't the cheery person he used to be, I watched his health decline along with his co-workers change he turned miserable he wasn't the same person. I'm I surprised he had a heart attack? no, I don't want to see the guy dead, it is her doing it to him.

Her and I had a big blow out she wasn't happy in her life she took it out on me as I've mentioned before I kicked her to the curb I didn't want to stay friends with her. I seen how angry a BPD can be it was the ugliest vicious side of her I've ever seen. I ended up in deep trouble with my employer I had to leave my supervisor job.

I think to myself if I stayed with her would I suffer the same fate? I didn't let her get away with the BS like her current BF. You know she acted different with me she gave up on her manipulating when she seen it didn't have an affect on me. She was calm with me most of the time she did cause some drama but most of the time she was calm.

Today I'm stress free I'm working in a previous career making decent money, I've recovered from the damages job burn out does to you. The BPD has painted me black I never hear from her if I ever do it will be NC. She was my first mentally ill woman she will be my last, she was way too much work to be in a relationship with.

Karma has come to haunt her, where she works nobody trusts her, I had a lot of employees at that corporation knew me and respected me she messed with the wrong person.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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With situations like this, the old term
Man Eater comes to my mind…
The final results will vary depending on each mans inner core strength that she interacts with.…
You are right to feel grateful for dodging that bullet.
 
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Why do you care?
 

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It bothers me how a toxic woman gloats she ruins men as I said she gloated she destroyed her last BF I bet she's gloating with glee she's almost killed her current BF. She really doesn't care about him its only what she can get out of him. I know it p*sses her off to no end that I bounced back better than ever she thought I would be ruined after losing my supervisor job and my health would take me out. It never happened I'm healthy like a 30 year old guy I look like I'm in my 30s life is good. She's claimed to attempt suicide couple times before she met me I guess I never stressed her out enough for her to try it again.... damn. Her little path of destruction continues and she's completely oblivious to it LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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