Just discovered that another girl I've been dating has a boyfriend who literally published 250 topless bathroom mirror selfies of himself, and she pays the bills. She needs to learn that when you subsidize something you get more of it. Men, know that these days, when you put dollars in a strippers garter, they often turn around put them in their man's garter.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Think I've experienced my first BPD
- Thread starter JonnyD123
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
xstang77
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Op I wouldn't jump the gun yet,it's still early she may just be your average fvcked In the head, atleast see if she texts you how she misses you and her undying love hours after she acted like you were the devil himself then go from there.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...tering-the-don-juan-way-of-life.197705/page-4
Scroll down to
LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Also very good knowledge here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-bpd-woman.134717/
Scroll down to
LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Also very good knowledge here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-bpd-woman.134717/
sazc
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This.
Analyzing her doesn't really matter. What matters is you know she is not compatible with you on a mental level, you know that you both do not share the same vision of a good relationship, and you know you were not happy.
It's a waste of time to dwell on all the possibilities. Use the experience to set your standards even higher, and get out there and keep looking.