Just discovered that another girl I've been dating has a boyfriend who literally published 250 topless bathroom mirror selfies of himself, and she pays the bills. She needs to learn that when you subsidize something you get more of it. Men, know that these days, when you put dollars in a strippers garter, they often turn around put them in their man's garter.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Think I've experienced my first BPD
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
xstang77
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Op I wouldn't jump the gun yet,it's still early she may just be your average fvcked In the head, atleast see if she texts you how she misses you and her undying love hours after she acted like you were the devil himself then go from there.
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...tering-the-don-juan-way-of-life.197705/page-4
Scroll down to
LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Also very good knowledge here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-bpd-woman.134717/
Scroll down to
LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Also very good knowledge here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-bpd-woman.134717/
sazc
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This.
Analyzing her doesn't really matter. What matters is you know she is not compatible with you on a mental level, you know that you both do not share the same vision of a good relationship, and you know you were not happy.
It's a waste of time to dwell on all the possibilities. Use the experience to set your standards even higher, and get out there and keep looking.