Just discovered that another girl I've been dating has a boyfriend who literally published 250 topless bathroom mirror selfies of himself, and she pays the bills. She needs to learn that when you subsidize something you get more of it. Men, know that these days, when you put dollars in a strippers garter, they often turn around put them in their man's garter.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Think I've experienced my first BPD
- Thread starter JonnyD123
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
xstang77
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Op I wouldn't jump the gun yet,it's still early she may just be your average fvcked In the head, atleast see if she texts you how she misses you and her undying love hours after she acted like you were the devil himself then go from there.
MrAddiction
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...tering-the-don-juan-way-of-life.197705/page-4
Scroll down to
LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Also very good knowledge here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-bpd-woman.134717/
Scroll down to
LESSON XXI: HOW TO IDENTIFY WHETHER A GIRL HAS BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Also very good knowledge here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-bpd-woman.134717/
sazc
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This.
Analyzing her doesn't really matter. What matters is you know she is not compatible with you on a mental level, you know that you both do not share the same vision of a good relationship, and you know you were not happy.
It's a waste of time to dwell on all the possibilities. Use the experience to set your standards even higher, and get out there and keep looking.