"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Think I'm losing a plate
- Thread starter K-man
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
Feeding her bullsh*t is wrong in my opinion, as you'd be leading her on, something I really hate. Just be open about it. And yes, that means you might lose a plate. Just make sure you have backups
.women haze
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SweetDannyJ
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Before being honest and open, which I also totally recommend, ask her what games she thinks you are playing.
However you go about convos in your relationship with her, bring it up and try to get some info. There's a hole somewhere, apparent with the "enough games" remark, and she might help you fix it by exposing some transparency you are unaware of.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
K-man said:
nothing...except try to avoid that next time..she clearly has feelings for you, and it is something you probably knew.
you were probably bitter a time or two over women?
**** I still get bitter thinking about a few things from YEARS ago..why didn't I have SS at 12, instead of 21!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
K-man said:
she is a woman.
she can trash you on FB and there will be 10 guys ready to help heal her wounds.
you trash a girl on facebook and your an ******* creep.
