Think I'm losing a plate

[K-man]

Well, I just got the "enough games, where's this RELATIONSHIP going" line on Facebook.

I never told her I wanted a relationship!

What to do? Drop her and look for a new plate?

 

[Zarky]

just keep feeding her BS until she wises up and dumps you. That's what I do, works like a charm to keep MLTRs going.

 

[SandHawk]

Just be honest with her? It's a girl's task to bring up the "where are we going with this?", but from there on it is your task to work out what you want from her.

Feeding her bullsh*t is wrong in my opinion, as you'd be leading her on, something I really hate. Just be open about it. And yes, that means you might lose a plate. Just make sure you have backups .

 

[women haze]

Honesty is the best policy...you should be having more than one plate on your menu.

 

[Warrior74]

Plates come and go. Once you hear that line you have a choice to make. Lie and BS and extend it until you can find someone else or tell her the truth and its over immediately. Oh you might still get a fvck or two out of her..but for all purposes its dead. Usually when you hear that line, that kinda means they have been bringing up the spare guy and are ready to either try it on with him or stay on with you. Gotta have that next branch, so don't be hurt or surprised when you see her with another guy or her FB status changes to in a relationship very soon.

 

[SweetDannyJ]

Quick tip to help your game along:
Before being honest and open, which I also totally recommend, ask her what games she thinks you are playing.

However you go about convos in your relationship with her, bring it up and try to get some info. There's a hole somewhere, apparent with the "enough games" remark, and she might help you fix it by exposing some transparency you are unaware of.

 

[K-man]

Danny,

Thank's, thats a very good tip!

I didn't have to tell her anything. Got a mail saying that my silence was all the info she needed. On to the next!

 

[K-man]

Phew!

Now this bitter old hag is writing bull**** about me on my facebook list. What can be done except blocking her?

 

[frivolousz21]

Phew!

Now this bitter old hag is writing bull**** about me on my facebook list. What can be done except blocking her?

nothing...except try to avoid that next time..she clearly has feelings for you, and it is something you probably knew.

you were probably bitter a time or two over women?

**** I still get bitter thinking about a few things from YEARS ago..why didn't I have SS at 12, instead of 21!!!

 

[K-man]

Of course I have been disappointed and hurt in the past...but posting about it on Facebook?

No mentally sane person does that.

 

[frivolousz21]

Of course I have been disappointed and hurt in the past...but posting about it on Facebook?

No mentally sane person does that.

she is a woman.

she can trash you on FB and there will be 10 guys ready to help heal her wounds.

you trash a girl on facebook and your an ******* creep.

 

[Desdinova]

Phew!

Now this bitter old hag is writing bull**** about me on my facebook list. What can be done except blocking her?

Do not contact, ignore messages from her, and move on. Granted, this will piss her off even more, but she'll eventually find another guy to absorb her 5hit. Time is all you've got at this point.