Well a couple days ago I finally made a kiss close with this girl. We started making out not long after, and from that time, 2 days from now, I haven't talked to her. I'm afraid that she saw me as a bad kisser and shes just trying to avoid me now... How should I take this situation?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Think I turned her off.
- Thread starter Badladman
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