"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Think I turned her off.

Badladman

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Well a couple days ago I finally made a kiss close with this girl. We started making out not long after, and from that time, 2 days from now, I haven't talked to her. I'm afraid that she saw me as a bad kisser and shes just trying to avoid me now... How should I take this situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hanson

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Don't sweat that stuff man, I highly doubt she would be turned off even if you were a bad kisser.
 

slaog

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Badladman said:
Well a couple days ago I finally made a kiss close with this girl. We started making out not long after, and from that time, 2 days from now, I haven't talked to her. I'm afraid that she saw me as a bad kisser and shes just trying to avoid me now... How should I take this situation?
Girls will kiss close and not call back sometimes. It's nothing to do with the kissing unless you bit her tonge off!

Have you tried to contact her?
 
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