"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think I turned her off.

Badladman

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Well a couple days ago I finally made a kiss close with this girl. We started making out not long after, and from that time, 2 days from now, I haven't talked to her. I'm afraid that she saw me as a bad kisser and shes just trying to avoid me now... How should I take this situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hanson

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Don't sweat that stuff man, I highly doubt she would be turned off even if you were a bad kisser.
 

slaog

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Badladman said:
Well a couple days ago I finally made a kiss close with this girl. We started making out not long after, and from that time, 2 days from now, I haven't talked to her. I'm afraid that she saw me as a bad kisser and shes just trying to avoid me now... How should I take this situation?
Girls will kiss close and not call back sometimes. It's nothing to do with the kissing unless you bit her tonge off!

Have you tried to contact her?
 
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