Think i might have the dreaded oneitis

[Le killeur]

Hey guys, just a quick problem to run by you. There's this chick at college who i have been seeing fairly regular and laying in bed with etc.

However the killer is i failed to kiss close and make the move, however everything else about my game has been pretty spot on (blame the inner afc). However on the last night of college before we left for holidays we were lay in bed and i made the move.

She responded by calling me out on saying we were friends etc and the neg's id been hitting her with but in a joking way. Anyway we makeout i suck her body etc but its like she's holding back on the sex. In the heat of the moment i would but i know i shouldnt as i shouldnt really have sex with her till i get checked out. Anyway we won't see each other for another 3 weeks as she had gone back to america, however i cant stop thinking about her and i'm unsure whether she will get back with her ex she recently broke up with, whether im the rebound or the guy she is using to get others jealous.

Anyway the crux of it is, is that i really wana fu@k her and im sure this oneitis will clear. However for the next 3 weeks should i keep contact at a minimum (just had an hour long video chat after a day - bad idea i know). This chick is pretty needy and flirtatious with alot of people. Should i go NC or what guys?

 

[Renegade357]

LOL, wait your turn. When she's done banging dudes in the US she might come back and bang you if you're lucky.

 

[dap]

Yep, NC is the answer. Enjoy your 3 weeks and keep yourself busy so you don't think about her. If she contacts you, respond positively but keep it short. No hour long afc-a-thons. Resume escalating when you see her again.

 

[JohnChops]

You lay with her regularly .. not having sex... you are the definition of.best friend lol

 

[Boilermaker]

Sounds like this one is out the window already son.

Why don't you try and find a new one, or do something useful for these 3-weeks?

 

[The Bat]

Umm...what? When originally you said you lay in bed with her, I thought you were doing more laying in her but I come to find out you're doing more laying in her bed than her....

WTF...?! Stop wasting your time with this attention seeker. Go NC forever. Put her in that category BELOW "acquaintances"...and she will fight back for your attention but keep her at a ship length distance and IF an opportunity presents itself...which means that she shows up at your room half-drunk...then go for the kill.

Otherwise, it's a lost cause. Your first and final mistake was laying in bed with her and not putting it in her. I never sleep with a woman in the same bed I don't intend to slide my jimmy in unless she is related to me.

 

[BigSmooth]

So I just banged some girl who just came back from England for the winter break and...

Oh wait...

Oops. Sorry bud.




But in all seriousness, you probably missed your chance at the kiss close. Or the moment y'all first laid in bed and you didn't make a move. I think it's time to move on.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Hey guys, just a quick problem to run by you. There's this chick at college who i have been seeing fairly regular and laying in bed with etc.

However the killer is i failed to kiss close and make the move, however everything else about my game has been pretty spot on (blame the inner afc). However on the last night of college before we left for holidays we were lay in bed and i made the move.

She responded by calling me out on saying we were friends etc and the neg's id been hitting her with but in a joking way. Anyway we makeout i suck her body etc but its like she's holding back on the sex. In the heat of the moment i would but i know i shouldnt as i shouldnt really have sex with her till i get checked out. Anyway we won't see each other for another 3 weeks as she had gone back to america, however i cant stop thinking about her and i'm unsure whether she will get back with her ex she recently broke up with, whether im the rebound or the guy she is using to get others jealous.

Anyway the crux of it is, is that i really wana fu@k her and im sure this oneitis will clear. However for the next 3 weeks should i keep contact at a minimum (just had an hour long video chat after a day - bad idea i know). This chick is pretty needy and flirtatious with alot of people. Should i go NC or what guys?

I can recall the feeling. You see a girl that you don't see everyday. You put your little life to revolve around hers. Put her on the soap box. Just put away your ego my friend and it should be fairly easy. Remember the good times with her and remember she has the memory of an elephant. She will never forget you.

 

[Le killeur]

Not gonna lie guys i think after christmas i will fu@k her and if she tries holding out on the sex again then i will. The problem is is that i sort of friendzoned her at the beginning as we are good friends.

Oh well, the thing i love about this site is the sheer harshness and bluntness of the answers, they hit hard and have an effect. I think this break will be put in pursuit of smashing random sloots and revising like a mofo for exams.

Also the reason she wouldnt smash is because she said i was a player and she was scared i was using her for sex

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Not gonna lie guys i think after christmas i will fu@k her and if she tries holding out on the sex again then i will. The problem is is that i sort of friendzoned her at the beginning as we are good friends.

Oh well, the thing i love about this site is the sheer harshness and bluntness of the answers, they hit hard and have an effect. I think this break will be put in pursuit of smashing random sloots and revising like a mofo for exams.

Also the reason she wouldnt smash is because she said i was a player and she was scared i was using her for sex

I once friend zone a girl like that. Her response was to get a ethnic boyfriend from cuba. She's been 4 years with the cuban guy. I'm sure he's a great guy. I only wonder if he figured out the 2012 doomsday prophecy for her.