“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Think I may have rescued the situation...

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but too early to see yet.

Went on a date with a girl I met online. Getting on OK but things were not going all that well. She said I was different from what she was expecting (personality wise) and she didn't feel that spark as she put it.

Its funny though that as she was explaining to me that she doesn't know if there was a connection between us. I don't know what I said but I knew I had to do something so I agreed with her and said we'll see what happens and I might like to see her again if shes a good girl! When i said this she said "see your confusing me now" leaned over and kissed me.

After that she talked about meeting up again etc. I said "we'll see" and she gave me a playfull punch in the arm. When saying goodbye we kissed again for over a minute.

Next morning I sent her a text saying something like "text you later, I'll have a think about if we should meet again but i think I'd like to ;)". About 1 min later she replied with a positive text message. She usually takes about 20 min before the date to respond to a text so thats a positive.

WARNING: I drank alot on the date and totally forgot about everything I've being learning. I was acting AFC (old habits) and it was only when I sensed things not going too well did I change my behaviour.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, it was a learning experience, look on it as such.

You've learned not to be an AFC and not to drink on a first date (which I'm attributing to nerves, otherwise you're a fool ;p)

My only tip would to be spare with the texts, it's a sure way to be a great friend to a girl. I wouldn't send "a text about a text".
 

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Anybody think I saved the day or am I fooling myself? She had a bit to drink too.

WesCottII said:
Well, it was a learning experience, look on it as such.

You've learned not to be an AFC and not to drink on a first date (which I'm attributing to nerves, otherwise you're a fool ;p)

My only tip would to be spare with the texts, it's a sure way to be a great friend to a girl. I wouldn't send "a text about a text".
Yeah a lesson learned alright. Never have more than a few drinks.
 
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