"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was out after work, taking a walk to the train with a female colleague in company.

"I thought about something" she said.

"I think it's quite fun to be you. You always seem to have such a bright outlook on life and there's so many things that interest you. You are enthusiastic about so much around you."

I didn't reflect on it that much but on my way home I realized that she had the impression of me that I really want other people to have. Smiled all the way home!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

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Powerlifter said:
But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

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Good point, but no, I'm not faking it.
I've been into some deep sh!it for the past few years but I made some tough choices and now I'm HAPPY!

I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
 
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K-man said:
I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
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This is certainly true.

I met a girl like this a little while ago and was just floored at how quickly
I became attracted to her. She's only about a 6.5 on the looks scale but
damn; her happy, energetic, curious about life attitude was super attractive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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