"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Think I got the best compliment ever today

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Was out after work, taking a walk to the train with a female colleague in company.

"I thought about something" she said.

"I think it's quite fun to be you. You always seem to have such a bright outlook on life and there's so many things that interest you. You are enthusiastic about so much around you."

I didn't reflect on it that much but on my way home I realized that she had the impression of me that I really want other people to have. Smiled all the way home!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

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Powerlifter said:
But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

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Good point, but no, I'm not faking it.
I've been into some deep sh!it for the past few years but I made some tough choices and now I'm HAPPY!

I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
 
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K-man said:
I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
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This is certainly true.

I met a girl like this a little while ago and was just floored at how quickly
I became attracted to her. She's only about a 6.5 on the looks scale but
damn; her happy, energetic, curious about life attitude was super attractive.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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