"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Think I got the best compliment ever today

K-man

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Was out after work, taking a walk to the train with a female colleague in company.

"I thought about something" she said.

"I think it's quite fun to be you. You always seem to have such a bright outlook on life and there's so many things that interest you. You are enthusiastic about so much around you."

I didn't reflect on it that much but on my way home I realized that she had the impression of me that I really want other people to have. Smiled all the way home!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

Powerlifter
 

K-man

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Powerlifter said:
But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

Powerlifter
Good point, but no, I'm not faking it.
I've been into some deep sh!it for the past few years but I made some tough choices and now I'm HAPPY!

I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
 

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K-man said:
I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
This is certainly true.

I met a girl like this a little while ago and was just floored at how quickly
I became attracted to her. She's only about a 6.5 on the looks scale but
damn; her happy, energetic, curious about life attitude was super attractive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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