"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Think I got the best compliment ever today

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Was out after work, taking a walk to the train with a female colleague in company.

"I thought about something" she said.

"I think it's quite fun to be you. You always seem to have such a bright outlook on life and there's so many things that interest you. You are enthusiastic about so much around you."

I didn't reflect on it that much but on my way home I realized that she had the impression of me that I really want other people to have. Smiled all the way home!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

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Powerlifter said:
But the real test is, is it true or are you really torn up inside fakin' it only appearing that way if not then that was a great compliment to get?

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Good point, but no, I'm not faking it.
I've been into some deep sh!it for the past few years but I made some tough choices and now I'm HAPPY!

I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
 
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K-man said:
I posted this in the DJ forum because to me, being happy, energetic and curious about life makes you an attractive person - to both your friends and the ladies!
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This is certainly true.

I met a girl like this a little while ago and was just floored at how quickly
I became attracted to her. She's only about a 6.5 on the looks scale but
damn; her happy, energetic, curious about life attitude was super attractive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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