Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Think I got tested this morning

SamMalone

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I got back together with a girl recently, and we decided to take things slow as far as sex goes. The girl came over last night and I cooked for her, and we had a heavy makeout section. We went upstairs and she told me that she likes how her down below hairs feel and has me rub to see if I liked it. I think I could have done something but I was so hungover from the day before I just wanted sleep.

This morning she tells me she wanted to give me a BJ last night but not this morning. The she stradled me for a few minutes and we made out and then she has to leave because she was late for work. Was she testing me or teasing me or what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Metacomet

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lol, you had a girl over, had dinner with her, made out with her - then when she gets you to pet her you are too 'tired' and hungover?

*sigh*

I don't need to say anything else.

Doesn't matter if she's 'testing' you or not ... you ****ed up already. Not sure what you expect anyone to tell you.
 

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Metacomet said:
lol, you had a girl over, had dinner with her, made out with her - then when she gets you to pet her you are too 'tired' and hungover?

*sigh*

I don't need to say anything else.

Doesn't matter if she's 'testing' you or not ... you ****ed up already. Not sure what you expect anyone to tell you.
I agree, you were not hungover to cook for this girl, eat with her, makeout with her but when she wanted to fluck you were hungover. GTFO you are just lying to your self... You were scared imo .
 

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It doesn't matter if you failed this test either... she wanted your ****, dude.

That's called passing the test. All you have to do now is GET YOUR DIPLOMA.

You haven't cashed in on this girls attraction and you need to do it while the ticket is hot.

What's funny is that not giving her the c0ck probably increased her appetite for it. This is why she straddled you in the morning and dangled the possibility of sex over your head.

Girls love to give blue balls in order to arrange a later fvck... I know others have experienced this. Tricksy little pixies that need the d1cksies... they know what they're up to .

Don't fck up THIS time eh?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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magickarl

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Refusing the vag =

1. Increased desire for penis

2. She may go get the **** elsewhere

Taking the vag =

1. You get some tang/She gets some ****

2. Afterwards, ignore her a little bit.

Cycle should look like: ****, ignore, ****, be nice, ****, ignore, ****, be nice, ****, ignore, ****, be nice
 

SamMalone

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We decided to not have sex for a while, which is why I didn't try for it, but yeah, I guess I messed up. Saw her today and she seemed cool though.
 

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Yeah girls say stuff like that cause they don't want to feel like it's just for the sex that you're getting back together. Your agreeing to taking it slow and not being too forward while making out was enough in my opinion. She has you feel her pubic hairs that equals game on.

I got back with an ex last year and she told me there was no way we were going to have sex that night and I said ok. Then I was on top of her no joke 10 minutes later. Girls don't always mean what they say.
 
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