"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Think I got tested this morning

SamMalone

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I got back together with a girl recently, and we decided to take things slow as far as sex goes. The girl came over last night and I cooked for her, and we had a heavy makeout section. We went upstairs and she told me that she likes how her down below hairs feel and has me rub to see if I liked it. I think I could have done something but I was so hungover from the day before I just wanted sleep.

This morning she tells me she wanted to give me a BJ last night but not this morning. The she stradled me for a few minutes and we made out and then she has to leave because she was late for work. Was she testing me or teasing me or what?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol, you had a girl over, had dinner with her, made out with her - then when she gets you to pet her you are too 'tired' and hungover?

*sigh*

I don't need to say anything else.

Doesn't matter if she's 'testing' you or not ... you ****ed up already. Not sure what you expect anyone to tell you.
 

Prodigy746

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Metacomet said:
lol, you had a girl over, had dinner with her, made out with her - then when she gets you to pet her you are too 'tired' and hungover?

*sigh*

I don't need to say anything else.

Doesn't matter if she's 'testing' you or not ... you ****ed up already. Not sure what you expect anyone to tell you.
I agree, you were not hungover to cook for this girl, eat with her, makeout with her but when she wanted to fluck you were hungover. GTFO you are just lying to your self... You were scared imo .
 

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It doesn't matter if you failed this test either... she wanted your ****, dude.

That's called passing the test. All you have to do now is GET YOUR DIPLOMA.

You haven't cashed in on this girls attraction and you need to do it while the ticket is hot.

What's funny is that not giving her the c0ck probably increased her appetite for it. This is why she straddled you in the morning and dangled the possibility of sex over your head.

Girls love to give blue balls in order to arrange a later fvck... I know others have experienced this. Tricksy little pixies that need the d1cksies... they know what they're up to .

Don't fck up THIS time eh?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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magickarl

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Refusing the vag =

1. Increased desire for penis

2. She may go get the **** elsewhere

Taking the vag =

1. You get some tang/She gets some ****

2. Afterwards, ignore her a little bit.

Cycle should look like: ****, ignore, ****, be nice, ****, ignore, ****, be nice, ****, ignore, ****, be nice
 

SamMalone

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We decided to not have sex for a while, which is why I didn't try for it, but yeah, I guess I messed up. Saw her today and she seemed cool though.
 

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Yeah girls say stuff like that cause they don't want to feel like it's just for the sex that you're getting back together. Your agreeing to taking it slow and not being too forward while making out was enough in my opinion. She has you feel her pubic hairs that equals game on.

I got back with an ex last year and she told me there was no way we were going to have sex that night and I said ok. Then I was on top of her no joke 10 minutes later. Girls don't always mean what they say.
 
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