"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Think I got tested this morning

SamMalone

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I got back together with a girl recently, and we decided to take things slow as far as sex goes. The girl came over last night and I cooked for her, and we had a heavy makeout section. We went upstairs and she told me that she likes how her down below hairs feel and has me rub to see if I liked it. I think I could have done something but I was so hungover from the day before I just wanted sleep.

This morning she tells me she wanted to give me a BJ last night but not this morning. The she stradled me for a few minutes and we made out and then she has to leave because she was late for work. Was she testing me or teasing me or what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Metacomet

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lol, you had a girl over, had dinner with her, made out with her - then when she gets you to pet her you are too 'tired' and hungover?

*sigh*

I don't need to say anything else.

Doesn't matter if she's 'testing' you or not ... you ****ed up already. Not sure what you expect anyone to tell you.
 

Prodigy746

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Metacomet said:
lol, you had a girl over, had dinner with her, made out with her - then when she gets you to pet her you are too 'tired' and hungover?

*sigh*

I don't need to say anything else.

Doesn't matter if she's 'testing' you or not ... you ****ed up already. Not sure what you expect anyone to tell you.
I agree, you were not hungover to cook for this girl, eat with her, makeout with her but when she wanted to fluck you were hungover. GTFO you are just lying to your self... You were scared imo .
 

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It doesn't matter if you failed this test either... she wanted your ****, dude.

That's called passing the test. All you have to do now is GET YOUR DIPLOMA.

You haven't cashed in on this girls attraction and you need to do it while the ticket is hot.

What's funny is that not giving her the c0ck probably increased her appetite for it. This is why she straddled you in the morning and dangled the possibility of sex over your head.

Girls love to give blue balls in order to arrange a later fvck... I know others have experienced this. Tricksy little pixies that need the d1cksies... they know what they're up to .

Don't fck up THIS time eh?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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magickarl

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Refusing the vag =

1. Increased desire for penis

2. She may go get the **** elsewhere

Taking the vag =

1. You get some tang/She gets some ****

2. Afterwards, ignore her a little bit.

Cycle should look like: ****, ignore, ****, be nice, ****, ignore, ****, be nice, ****, ignore, ****, be nice
 

SamMalone

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We decided to not have sex for a while, which is why I didn't try for it, but yeah, I guess I messed up. Saw her today and she seemed cool though.
 

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Yeah girls say stuff like that cause they don't want to feel like it's just for the sex that you're getting back together. Your agreeing to taking it slow and not being too forward while making out was enough in my opinion. She has you feel her pubic hairs that equals game on.

I got back with an ex last year and she told me there was no way we were going to have sex that night and I said ok. Then I was on top of her no joke 10 minutes later. Girls don't always mean what they say.
 
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