Think I got cucked today

[darksprezzatura]

Folks seek advice or talk about their awesome experiences here.

Today, I'd like to share a negative experience that's a sweet learning lesson for me and maybe for you too.

I called up this cute girl I'd hooked up w before, home, she came.

She said she has to go meet a work friend for a bit and she'll be back.

I immediately understood that as triangulation and told her that she should call him right now and go.

She said no, she's cancelled and she'll go later after 2-3 hours with me.

I told her it's alright, it's important because it's work, let's wait for a bit and you should go. I made plans it's chill.

So she was kind of shocked and I called her a cab and made other plans right now.

I'm going to meet someone else right now.

I thought I should share this experience because to me it was disrespectful and it's a hard next for this one.

What's your opinion?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Ummm...so nobody is allowed to have any type of life outside of meeting you. Got it. You must be a blast in a long term relationship.

So if she would have simply met you after meeting her friend that would have been cool but since she wanted to spend more time with you and had a prior engagement that wasn't cool? Not understanding how that logic works.

This is what it looks like when a man is convinced that every little thing a woman does is designed to be "out to get you" and every time she says something it is a lie.

You think you got cucked, I think you vastly overreacted.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

came across as insecure.

 

[RickTheToad]

Folks seek advice or talk about their awesome experiences here.

Today, I'd like to share a negative experience that's a sweet learning lesson for me and maybe for you too.

I called up this cute girl I'd hooked up w before, home, she came.

She said she has to go meet a work friend for a bit and she'll be back.

I immediately understood that as triangulation and told her that she should call him right now and go.

She said no, she's cancelled and she'll go later after 2-3 hours with me.

I told her it's alright, it's important because it's work, let's wait for a bit and you should go. I made plans it's chill.

So she was kind of shocked and I called her a cab and made other plans right now.

I'm going to meet someone else right now.

I thought I should share this experience because to me it was disrespectful and it's a hard next for this one.

What's your opinion?

This is not being cucked. You are not in an exclusive relationship. You two are just plates to each other. Being too sensitive about it and caring too much.

 

[rjc149]

Being "cucked" is appropriate to describe a situation in which your wife is openly engaging in sexual relationships with other men, with your knowledge and reluctant, tacit consent.

I hardly see how this situation qualifies as you being a cuckold.

It's important to understand that this all stems from insecurity and fear -- that you are being disrespected, taken advantage of, used, humiliated, "cucked" -- it's hyper-sensitivity.

If you're not under any exclusive arrangement with this girl, then she can do whatever she wants. Just be indifferent, detached, and always playful and upbeat. Don't be so reactive.

 

[Romanemp22]

I wouldn't think much about it. She's not your gf who gives a fvck if she's meeting her friend. You say ok cool and go on with your other plans and bang her some other time.

 

[Roober]

Looks like you overreacted a bit. She had plans already and she's supposed to drop them for a guy who she's hooked up with...? (E.g. you)

My logic must be broke, because I can't understand how that makes sense.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I once observed that she used this same tactic while being on a date with some other guy with me.

As in calling me, while on a date with someone else, to meet me.

Looks like you overreacted a bit. She had plans already and she's supposed to drop them for a guy who she's hooked up with...? (E.g. you)

My logic must be broke, because I can't understand how that makes sense.

None of my plates make plans WHILE they are with me.

Does this mean she came to your place, then said she had to leave but would be back? Not sure I'm understanding correctly.

Yes.

This kind of behaviour seemed too weird for me. And I said fvck it, asked her to leave and called someone else.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I once observed that she used this same tactic while being on a date with some other guy with me.

As in calling me, while on a date with someone else, to meet me.



None of my plates make plans WHILE they are with me.

Yes.

This kind of behaviour seemed too weird for me. And I said fvck it, asked her to leave and called someone else.

Why do you value a human being like that? A girl I knew who was a childhood 'friend' dated a old buddy in my circle. guy code. You don't go near just cause.

She's 30+ and an absolute train wreck. She thinks it's still high school. She matched with a buddy and tried some shady ****. My buddy pulled a girl a decade younger than her. Hot!!!

These types of women are beyond redemption. At this point in life, they arenot in short supply. These skanks will get banged out on a date with a different dude in a public bathroom and be OK with a chump paying the bill.

I think you overreacted as others stated. not your girl. It's just your turn. If you are unattached and icy as ****kk nut and evacuate. you don't seem to be so start your houdini disappearing act. get more girls. hotter and younger ftw. suddenly this thread becomes hilarious and your levels of ****kk are gone.