Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Things to talk about
- Thread starter Oni
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This Times For Real
Don Juan
Where you ask a question and listen to her response and take a noun and make more questions about that noun while throwing in bits of your own opinion
ex.
Hey Carolina whussup?
Nuttin Im jus bored!
Oh really? whys that?
Well janine didnt come today!
what were you gonna do with janine?
well I was gonna talk to her and then have sex in front of you for your pleasure!
Cool. Were you gonna have some oral sex first?
Yeah I love oral sex
Yeah me to, im real good at it.
etc..
You can't plan out a response for every possible scenario. The best way to improve at conversations is by having lots of them. Listen to other people talk. And do a search, there's a thread asking this question every week.Originally posted by Oni
lol real nice
what if the responce for why are u bored is...cuz i got nothing to do or nothing then what do u say
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.