"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Things to talk about

Oni

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What are some things to talk about with the girl that you hang out with and are trying to get? It seems like im out of ideas =O/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nouning

Where you ask a question and listen to her response and take a noun and make more questions about that noun while throwing in bits of your own opinion

ex.

Hey Carolina whussup?
Nuttin Im jus bored!
Oh really? whys that?
Well janine didnt come today!
what were you gonna do with janine?
well I was gonna talk to her and then have sex in front of you for your pleasure!
Cool. Were you gonna have some oral sex first?

Yeah I love oral sex

Yeah me to, im real good at it.

etc..
 

Oni

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lol real nice

what if the responce for why are u bored is...cuz i got nothing to do or nothing then what do u say
 

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Originally posted by Oni
lol real nice

what if the responce for why are u bored is...cuz i got nothing to do or nothing then what do u say
You can't plan out a response for every possible scenario. The best way to improve at conversations is by having lots of them. Listen to other people talk. And do a search, there's a thread asking this question every week.
 

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when im out of ideas i start teasing.

"im bored"
"youre bored? i guess that means youre boring?"


"why dont you ever talk?"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You want to get off your computer and rethink your life.
 
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