"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Things to talk about

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Oni

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What are some things to talk about with the girl that you hang out with and are trying to get? It seems like im out of ideas =O/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Where you ask a question and listen to her response and take a noun and make more questions about that noun while throwing in bits of your own opinion

ex.

Hey Carolina whussup?
Nuttin Im jus bored!
Oh really? whys that?
Well janine didnt come today!
what were you gonna do with janine?
well I was gonna talk to her and then have sex in front of you for your pleasure!
Cool. Were you gonna have some oral sex first?

Yeah I love oral sex

Yeah me to, im real good at it.

etc..
 
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lol real nice

what if the responce for why are u bored is...cuz i got nothing to do or nothing then what do u say
 
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Originally posted by Oni
lol real nice

what if the responce for why are u bored is...cuz i got nothing to do or nothing then what do u say
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You can't plan out a response for every possible scenario. The best way to improve at conversations is by having lots of them. Listen to other people talk. And do a search, there's a thread asking this question every week.
 
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when im out of ideas i start teasing.

"im bored"
"youre bored? i guess that means youre boring?"


"why dont you ever talk?"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You want to get off your computer and rethink your life.
 
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