"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Things to do without a car

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So, I used to think that a car was basically essential in order to go out with a girl. There was a girl that I wanted to ask out, I had it pretty planned out, but I didn't do it because I thought I needed a car first.

So instead I got a job for a month or so, but they fired me and now it's looking like I won't have a car for at least another month. It keeps getting postponed.

This girl's had a boyfriend for the past 2 weeks, he goes to another school. I don't think it's going to last that long, so I'm not that worried yet.

If she breaks up with her boyfriend and I were to ask her out, I'm not that worried about anything going wrong there. But really, how necessary is a car? It's tough to get around this area without a car, but really, I'm starting to not care about that, and I figure it's stupid to keep postponing what I've wanted to do all along over something like this, and I should just ask her out when she breaks up with her boyfriend, regardless if I have a car or not.

I'm wondering if anyone else has any opinions or similar experiences here, anyone else who doesn't have a car, any suggestions of places to go, etc., that don't involve driving there. I mean, obviously you guys don't know the local area I'm in, but as far as activities in general, people could probably help with that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey 1024 if the girl does not go out with you because of a car... you know what to do: Dump Her. I don't have a car but I got friends with cars. If I ever need to go anywhere to do anything I just call up one of my friends and see if they will give me a ride.

There is nothing you need to have to do something with a girl except:
1. A D***
2. A Brain
3. A Heart

Everything else is excessive
 

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I wasn't trying to get her to go out with me because of the car, I just used to think that I needed a car because we wouldn't be able to go anywhere without it. It's nearly impossible to get to a movie theater from this town without driving. So if that's what we're going to do, then not having a car eliminates that. If we can't get rides anywhere, how are we supposed to go out?

That's not entirely what I still think, I'm just clarifying what I used to think.

(And as far as I know her boyfriend doesn't have a car, but then again it doesn't seem like they hang out that much...)
 

six-foot AZN '05

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Nothing else to do without a car? No parks, no playgrounds, no malls? Cars do get you to places where everyone is and some cool places, so I'm not saying that you will not need a car. I'm just suggesting that there are probably places within walking or even biking distance where you and she can have fun.
 

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Go on bike rides, walk threw the park, hang out at each other's houses. I don't use a car even though I could. I bike everywhere and I still date girls and all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fool have her parents or your parents take you.

Really, who cares? If she's "too cool" for that, then **** her, she's a stupid ass ***** and should suck a ****ing dirty **** and get *** all over her face.
 

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Strange,one of the girls I'm hitting on doesn't go out with me because her dad doesn't allow her to ride on motorbikes..
 
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AC/DC said:
Fool have her parents or your parents take you.

Really, who cares? If she's "too cool" for that, then **** her, she's a stupid ass ***** and should suck a ****ing dirty **** and get *** all over her face.
AHAAHAHA ACDC your the man, I wish more guys weren't like chicks and went straigth to the point. Back to the thread, how about getting a ride from your friend or maybe like a DOUBLE DATE so your wingman can drive you? Or you can just practice your game so when you DO get a car your ready for a LTR.
 
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