"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Things to do without a car

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So, I used to think that a car was basically essential in order to go out with a girl. There was a girl that I wanted to ask out, I had it pretty planned out, but I didn't do it because I thought I needed a car first.

So instead I got a job for a month or so, but they fired me and now it's looking like I won't have a car for at least another month. It keeps getting postponed.

This girl's had a boyfriend for the past 2 weeks, he goes to another school. I don't think it's going to last that long, so I'm not that worried yet.

If she breaks up with her boyfriend and I were to ask her out, I'm not that worried about anything going wrong there. But really, how necessary is a car? It's tough to get around this area without a car, but really, I'm starting to not care about that, and I figure it's stupid to keep postponing what I've wanted to do all along over something like this, and I should just ask her out when she breaks up with her boyfriend, regardless if I have a car or not.

I'm wondering if anyone else has any opinions or similar experiences here, anyone else who doesn't have a car, any suggestions of places to go, etc., that don't involve driving there. I mean, obviously you guys don't know the local area I'm in, but as far as activities in general, people could probably help with that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey 1024 if the girl does not go out with you because of a car... you know what to do: Dump Her. I don't have a car but I got friends with cars. If I ever need to go anywhere to do anything I just call up one of my friends and see if they will give me a ride.

There is nothing you need to have to do something with a girl except:
1. A D***
2. A Brain
3. A Heart

Everything else is excessive
 

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I wasn't trying to get her to go out with me because of the car, I just used to think that I needed a car because we wouldn't be able to go anywhere without it. It's nearly impossible to get to a movie theater from this town without driving. So if that's what we're going to do, then not having a car eliminates that. If we can't get rides anywhere, how are we supposed to go out?

That's not entirely what I still think, I'm just clarifying what I used to think.

(And as far as I know her boyfriend doesn't have a car, but then again it doesn't seem like they hang out that much...)
 

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Nothing else to do without a car? No parks, no playgrounds, no malls? Cars do get you to places where everyone is and some cool places, so I'm not saying that you will not need a car. I'm just suggesting that there are probably places within walking or even biking distance where you and she can have fun.
 

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Go on bike rides, walk threw the park, hang out at each other's houses. I don't use a car even though I could. I bike everywhere and I still date girls and all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fool have her parents or your parents take you.

Really, who cares? If she's "too cool" for that, then **** her, she's a stupid ass ***** and should suck a ****ing dirty **** and get *** all over her face.
 

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Strange,one of the girls I'm hitting on doesn't go out with me because her dad doesn't allow her to ride on motorbikes..
 
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AC/DC said:
Fool have her parents or your parents take you.

Really, who cares? If she's "too cool" for that, then **** her, she's a stupid ass ***** and should suck a ****ing dirty **** and get *** all over her face.
AHAAHAHA ACDC your the man, I wish more guys weren't like chicks and went straigth to the point. Back to the thread, how about getting a ride from your friend or maybe like a DOUBLE DATE so your wingman can drive you? Or you can just practice your game so when you DO get a car your ready for a LTR.
 
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