"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
things to do when hanging out with girls
- Thread starter randalll
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
LOLwolf116 said:
Not everyone is the great wolf116
but when we're not doing that i need more things i can do when we're just hanging out in my room
she probably thinks i just sit on my ass all day, which is half true, im not in a band, i dont play sports, and i dont really have a strong hobby, just do some art every now and then
i dont have many friends here at uni (sharing a half empty flat with 2 other loners) so it's difficult to get to know people well and get involved with whatever they do. but i do get along well with the people i know and i have much more confidence now than i did before i moved to uni
i just need a few activities i can do on my own
I'm not great with women, that's why I'm here (social anxiety disorder). But when I have a chick in my room I'm just thinking of one thing and I will make the moves or be kicked into LJBF. Trust me, even if she rejects your advances it's a good thing.ARrocket said:LOL
Not everyone is the great wolf116
I'm involved in sports, have heaps of hobbies and outdoor adventure activity's. But those things are for me. When hanging with a girl all you need to be doing is talking, cuddling, playing (tickling, play wrestling), massage and ****ing.
She doesn't want to be doing any lame sh!t like playing Mario.