"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
things to do when hanging out with girls
- Thread starter randalll
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
LOLwolf116 said:
Not everyone is the great wolf116
but when we're not doing that i need more things i can do when we're just hanging out in my room
she probably thinks i just sit on my ass all day, which is half true, im not in a band, i dont play sports, and i dont really have a strong hobby, just do some art every now and then
i dont have many friends here at uni (sharing a half empty flat with 2 other loners) so it's difficult to get to know people well and get involved with whatever they do. but i do get along well with the people i know and i have much more confidence now than i did before i moved to uni
i just need a few activities i can do on my own
I'm not great with women, that's why I'm here (social anxiety disorder). But when I have a chick in my room I'm just thinking of one thing and I will make the moves or be kicked into LJBF. Trust me, even if she rejects your advances it's a good thing.ARrocket said:LOL
Not everyone is the great wolf116
I'm involved in sports, have heaps of hobbies and outdoor adventure activity's. But those things are for me. When hanging with a girl all you need to be doing is talking, cuddling, playing (tickling, play wrestling), massage and ****ing.
She doesn't want to be doing any lame sh!t like playing Mario.