"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
things to do when hanging out with girls
- Thread starter randalll
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
LOLwolf116 said:
Not everyone is the great wolf116
but when we're not doing that i need more things i can do when we're just hanging out in my room
she probably thinks i just sit on my ass all day, which is half true, im not in a band, i dont play sports, and i dont really have a strong hobby, just do some art every now and then
i dont have many friends here at uni (sharing a half empty flat with 2 other loners) so it's difficult to get to know people well and get involved with whatever they do. but i do get along well with the people i know and i have much more confidence now than i did before i moved to uni
i just need a few activities i can do on my own
I'm not great with women, that's why I'm here (social anxiety disorder). But when I have a chick in my room I'm just thinking of one thing and I will make the moves or be kicked into LJBF. Trust me, even if she rejects your advances it's a good thing.ARrocket said:LOL
Not everyone is the great wolf116
I'm involved in sports, have heaps of hobbies and outdoor adventure activity's. But those things are for me. When hanging with a girl all you need to be doing is talking, cuddling, playing (tickling, play wrestling), massage and ****ing.
She doesn't want to be doing any lame sh!t like playing Mario.