Things to do to make her want you

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

00Kevin

Master Don Juan

Sep 30, 2004

Re: Re: Things to do to make her want you

Originally posted by MsThang
NO NO NO NO NO. Men are terrible at compliments. For instance, the following "compliments" should be avoided:

"You're pretty fun for a fat girl."

"That dress does a great job of hiding your fat thighs."

"You remind me of my ex-girlfriend! She was great in bed."

"You have a great ass. I bet you like it when guys hit it from the back."

thanks.. I'm going to use these

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.