"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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I am spending too much!!!!...as she comes over during weekends and stays wid me and so I have to treat her right from the breakfast, lunch and dinner...for three days !! Also we go out see movies, go dancing and clubs...which I like to go..and she just follows..
so at the end of the weekend I find I am spending too much on her ..

During dating I kept it simple and not so flashy..but my money flies out when we are in a relationship..

any ideas how to control it...my pad does not have a kitchen so no cooking business...have to go out for everything...

How to put a cap on my spending when u r in a relationship..and at the same time mantain the spark in it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN
I am spending too much!!!!...as she comes over during weekends and stays wid me and so I have to treat her right from the breakfast, lunch and dinner...for three days !! Also we go out see movies, go dancing and clubs...which I like to go..and she just follows..
so at the end of the weekend I find I am spending too much on her ..

During dating I kept it simple and not so flashy..but my money flies out when we are in a relationship..

any ideas how to control it...my pad does not have a kitchen so no cooking business...have to go out for everything...

How to put a cap on my spending when u r in a relationship..and at the same time mantain the spark in it.
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Get a stove and a fridge. Get a pan, 2 knives, plates, silverware, glasses and the assorted cooking equipment (spoons, spalutas). Learn to cook.

As for money being like water, don't spend it! You don't need a expensive dinner, or a stop at the nearest ice cream shop to keep interest. Grab 4 deli sandwiches, 4 Glass bottles with healthy juice (apple) and a little sweet treat. Grab a blanket and I think you got the picture. Total cost, less then that dinner.

Basically, if you have to spend, look at alternatives.
 
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