"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am spending too much!!!!...as she comes over during weekends and stays wid me and so I have to treat her right from the breakfast, lunch and dinner...for three days !! Also we go out see movies, go dancing and clubs...which I like to go..and she just follows..
so at the end of the weekend I find I am spending too much on her ..

During dating I kept it simple and not so flashy..but my money flies out when we are in a relationship..

any ideas how to control it...my pad does not have a kitchen so no cooking business...have to go out for everything...

How to put a cap on my spending when u r in a relationship..and at the same time mantain the spark in it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN
I am spending too much!!!!...as she comes over during weekends and stays wid me and so I have to treat her right from the breakfast, lunch and dinner...for three days !! Also we go out see movies, go dancing and clubs...which I like to go..and she just follows..
so at the end of the weekend I find I am spending too much on her ..

During dating I kept it simple and not so flashy..but my money flies out when we are in a relationship..

any ideas how to control it...my pad does not have a kitchen so no cooking business...have to go out for everything...

How to put a cap on my spending when u r in a relationship..and at the same time mantain the spark in it.
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Get a stove and a fridge. Get a pan, 2 knives, plates, silverware, glasses and the assorted cooking equipment (spoons, spalutas). Learn to cook.

As for money being like water, don't spend it! You don't need a expensive dinner, or a stop at the nearest ice cream shop to keep interest. Grab 4 deli sandwiches, 4 Glass bottles with healthy juice (apple) and a little sweet treat. Grab a blanket and I think you got the picture. Total cost, less then that dinner.

Basically, if you have to spend, look at alternatives.
 
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