"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am spending too much!!!!...as she comes over during weekends and stays wid me and so I have to treat her right from the breakfast, lunch and dinner...for three days !! Also we go out see movies, go dancing and clubs...which I like to go..and she just follows..
so at the end of the weekend I find I am spending too much on her ..

During dating I kept it simple and not so flashy..but my money flies out when we are in a relationship..

any ideas how to control it...my pad does not have a kitchen so no cooking business...have to go out for everything...

How to put a cap on my spending when u r in a relationship..and at the same time mantain the spark in it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN
I am spending too much!!!!...as she comes over during weekends and stays wid me and so I have to treat her right from the breakfast, lunch and dinner...for three days !! Also we go out see movies, go dancing and clubs...which I like to go..and she just follows..
so at the end of the weekend I find I am spending too much on her ..

During dating I kept it simple and not so flashy..but my money flies out when we are in a relationship..

any ideas how to control it...my pad does not have a kitchen so no cooking business...have to go out for everything...

How to put a cap on my spending when u r in a relationship..and at the same time mantain the spark in it.
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Get a stove and a fridge. Get a pan, 2 knives, plates, silverware, glasses and the assorted cooking equipment (spoons, spalutas). Learn to cook.

As for money being like water, don't spend it! You don't need a expensive dinner, or a stop at the nearest ice cream shop to keep interest. Grab 4 deli sandwiches, 4 Glass bottles with healthy juice (apple) and a little sweet treat. Grab a blanket and I think you got the picture. Total cost, less then that dinner.

Basically, if you have to spend, look at alternatives.
 
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