"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Things to do at work!!

saber

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I am at work for eight hours three days a week.

Many days I have absolutely nothing to do. Is anybody else in the same situation...how are you passing the time.

And of course I can't just install video games...the screen has to be completely normal if someone walks in my office all of a sudden.

So basically I need a way to pass time at work without getting caught...sounds stupid since they know I have nothing to work on lol


and i just started online sarging to kill time but only so much you can do at a time
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Wolf

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Establish yourself within organization. Become the alpha male. Find some material on how to become alpha male and study it.. You want to be the man around your work place. Not a doutsch that every one uses or that hides in his office, you want to be provider where it counts, never kissing a55, and giving a hand with conditions applied.

Become an unofficial leader.
 

saber

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thx for the advice but im not interested in any social dynamics at work info just some ways to kill time on the comp
 

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i would listen to my mp3 player, draw or read a book. oh or make up lyrics hey its fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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