"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Things to do at work!!

saber

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I am at work for eight hours three days a week.

Many days I have absolutely nothing to do. Is anybody else in the same situation...how are you passing the time.

And of course I can't just install video games...the screen has to be completely normal if someone walks in my office all of a sudden.

So basically I need a way to pass time at work without getting caught...sounds stupid since they know I have nothing to work on lol


and i just started online sarging to kill time but only so much you can do at a time
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Wolf

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Establish yourself within organization. Become the alpha male. Find some material on how to become alpha male and study it.. You want to be the man around your work place. Not a doutsch that every one uses or that hides in his office, you want to be provider where it counts, never kissing a55, and giving a hand with conditions applied.

Become an unofficial leader.
 

saber

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thx for the advice but im not interested in any social dynamics at work info just some ways to kill time on the comp
 

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i would listen to my mp3 player, draw or read a book. oh or make up lyrics hey its fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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